I woke up today to my wife telling the kids that I "...let life pass me by while I play games all the time." My first though was "and watching TV lets less life pass me by or shopping perhaps? Or maybe 70+ hour work weeks or reading all day long....maybe those let less life pass by". Logical battles at the crack of dawn are a classic example of
Kobayashi Maru so I kept my yap sealed. We all live in peace mostly because I wisely don't inject logic - often times she realizes her own error with out me saying a word.
Though I did reflect upon the thought, which isn't a stranger to my thinking.... actually its something I think about often already. The answer is: there is no wasted time when you are doing what you want to do.
What is a worthy cause? What is a worthy use of your time? Even helping others could lead to an unpredictable chain of events that you can not foresee: the birds you help save from extinction eventually produce an avian virus that wipes out 50% of the human population. Which might actually be a good thing?
I not saying you shouldn't help others if that is what you want to do. But I don't think that is any less or more wasted time then the game I play (more noble to be sure; we'll order you a crown).
Would additional education be productive portion of my life spent? Maybe. If there was some goal for the investment of cash and life force that it would meet. Is not that life still passed by though?
Perhaps I play games to study them more so I can make one? Is my time less wasted or passed by yet?
My father once told me "...all those games you play, they appear to have paid off. I never would have thought so." Yes dad, in the terms you presented them in, they did. But would I have been the President by now had I only not played those games - did I limit myself or did I gain?
What are those gains or theoretical losses? We don't know what could have been so we must take what is and we must make the best of it.
So what did I find was a waste in my life?..which actually equals what do I like to do the least: Drive to work (which extends all the way into drive at all). I don't have any problems working or the work I do but I do not like the wasteful process of getting there and back. The wasted energy, pollution produced, and life force consumed; on top of not liking to do it in the first place. THATS WHY LIFE IS PASSING ME BY - 40-60 minutes each day(currently). 10 days of each year burned, in global warming, economic destructive-energy dependent road time. When I am not eating cause there is no fuel to haul or produce food products I am CERTAIN I will think the roughly 2 years (over a driving/working lifetime) I spent behind the wheel helping to creating a Flordia like climate in Indiana was all so worth it (assuming I believe any of that at all).
I have no point except all of this is wrong. I think I will go back to my video game now.
Well, I've let enough life pass me by on this post. Have a great day because it could be your last! :)